When did text messaging become the common way to start/end a relationship? In an era where we are more connected to everyone & everything- why does it seem we’re more detached? Have we lost the human touch?
Now, I’m not just picking on texting. I realize it’s the off-shoot of the 1990’s where we did the same with emails; which, followed the 1980’s where phones & answering machines/voice mails were the preferred method. But, seriously… how many of you know have friends that respond to text messages rather than answer their phones?
Webster’s Dictionary includes this definition of communication: “personal rapport”. The Oxford English Dictionary defines rapport as “a close and harmonious relationship in which there is common understanding”.
“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have a potential to turn a life around.” One of my favorite quotes from Dr. Leo Buscaglia, an alumnus & professor @ USC School of Education. Leo was an author & lecturer of the human condition & of love. He taught a class at USC called “Love 1A”. His first book was called “Love” & has sold more than 1 million copies since 1972.
Love Quiz
Asking yourself questions and answering them honestly is a good path to self-knowledge. In keeping with this idea, I’d like to propose a few end-of-the-day questions for each of us . . .
· Is anyone a little happier because I came along today?
· Did I leave any concrete evidence of my kindness, any sign of my love?
· Did I try to think of someone I know in a more positive light?
· Did I help someone to feel joy, to laugh, or at least, to smile?
· Have I attempted to remove a little of the rust that is corroding my relationships?
· Have I forgiven others for being less than perfect?
· Have I forgiven myself?
· Have I learned something new about life, living or love?
. Have I gone through the day without fretting over what I don’t have & celebrating the things I do have?